Weird Begins

I got this series of OkCupid messages from Third One His profile starts with, “Im unwillingly Wise, unintentionally handsome, unwittingly financially secure, well-Traveled, Curious, Educated, Fit by the pursuit of health not ego, and bored with the mundane and ignorant.” Wow! He sounds so uumm charming. I think he forgot to add how modest he is.

Mar 30 9:56pm
I am sure I sent you a message before, but in case I didnt mention it……….YOUR WEIRD

Apr 3 7:46pm
You type that as if weird is a bad thing, and yes I think I’ve seen your profile before.

Apr 5 6:29pm
No,

I am not a subjectivist, and being able to think freely is generally a positive thing…….but being strange meerly for it’s own sake is clearly a form of exibishionism. You seem like a smart person, but I know it is hard to get attention these days……so many diversions!

Ciao

Apr 5 7:38pm
I’m just being me. I’m not here for attention. I’m here because for my friends kept sending me links to take all these tests, so I started the profile to log all the results. Now we just use it from time to time to look at all the different profiles, and answer emails from people who think I’m weird but don’t state what part of my profile prompted that assessment.

Apr 8 7:20am
Which part!???! your pulling my leg, right?

I love that comment “just being me”, so this is not a matter of nuture, but is just Nature? the way you were born? Just be yourself….I always take this as lose your anxiety and fear and just be open. This is cool and the key to happiness…..but Just being me, sounds like stagnant water, which the rest of your profile belies.

I think you are trying to be considerably more than yourself……but people who are growing must strive to be just that.

Anyway….coming up for air, I am not sure I can remember what prompted me to say how wierd you were? I think maybe it’s your preoccupation with Violence? I would have to go back and look.

So you dont like attention? you live alone? avoid other people at all times? I guess it’s my lack of maturity, but I am here for attention….there I admited it, feels so good to let it out…..

thanx for the S & G…..

Apr 18 7:54pm
NO, I am not pulling your leg. I really do not know what part prompted your email. I am not a mind reader.

I did not write my profile for the purpose of shocking people. - That is what I meant by just being me. Nature, nurture either one could be the cause, but the things that I list are on my profile are truly my taste.

> I think you are trying to be considerably more than
> yourself

On the contrary, I am trying to be considerably less than myself. I hope to disappear completely someday.

>……but people who are growing must strive to be just
> that.

Your intellect is truly dizzying dear Dr. Phil.

> So you dont like attention? you live alone? avoid other people
> at all times? I guess it’s my lack of maturity, but I am here
> for attention….there I admited it, feels so good to let it
> out…..

uuuhh I never said I didn’t like attention. I did say that I did not create the profile for catching attention. No, I do not live alone, but I do actively avoid people from time to time.

Apr 20 9:22pm
thanx for the vote of confidence in my intelectual capacity!

But really, you dont think any part of your profile would be considered strange??

oh and thanx for your attention (no sarcasm, I really am thankful!!)…it’s os hard to be genuine sometimes you know? perhaps that’s from whenc ethe wierdness comes……whoooooo….

May 29 7:43am
I can promise you one thing!

you will dissapear one day…..I still think you are not quite ready for this event though…..

Ciao