The Disappearance of Mommy Milk Machine

If you read my very long ranty, I-hate-TSA post (nobody did, so don’t feel bad) you might be wondering how Sophia did without me. She did really well, just not on the first night. Poor Kurtie.

After a couple of hours of fussing, Sophia finally went to sleep the first night. She woke up at midnight and started SCREAMING when she saw daddy’s face instead of mine. She screamed for two hours. She woke up early, still tired, so Kurt had her fall asleep with him. I called at eight in the morning to see how things were going and woke them both up. Kurt said that the rest of the day wherever they went in the house, Sophia would look all around the room to see if I was there. That evening I called again. Kurt said that she was ok during the day, but looked very sad. She was playing quietly while he talked to me, then he put the phone up to her ear. I talked to her, she recognized my voice and she started crying. Kurt said she looked at him as if to say, “How dare you put my mommy *in* the phone”. The next night went better. She was so tired from the previous night that she “passed out” in Kurt’s arms at six that evening.

Other than that, things went well for them. The whole month prior to my trip, I gave Sophia her morning cereal with formula so that I knew she’d be ok with that different taste and it wouldn’t upset her stomach. She was already ok with a bottle since daycare; so the lack of nighttime mommy milk machine that was the only tough part.

Pathetic

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Daily Infant Report

Monday, June 23rd, “Hi there! Sophia is very strong! She pulled up on the shelves today! She scooted a lot today. She wouldn’t stay at one place. She slowly would move to different places to reach objects.”

Yep, that’s my little Butt Scootin’ Baby. I’ve actually seen her do it a few times now. She stays in a sitting position with one leg kicking her off like she was on a skateboard and the other still in front of her. She has a left leg preference for pushing off.

Tuesday, June 24th, “Hi there! Sophia had a great day! She was very curious about *name of other child*’s hair. She was touching his curls and making little funny screams.

Wednesday, June 25th – Kurt picked up Sophia at 12:30. Kurtie went home sick. We were both sick the next day and I didn’t feel up to caring for the human petree dish so we sent her to daycare.

Thursday, June 26th, “Hi there! I can’t believe today is Sophia’s last day! It was a wonderful time getting to know her. She is a very sweet girly girl! Today all the time I put her to sleep she would stand up in the crib and smile to everyone.”

Yep, you read right. Sophia’s last day of daycare was Thursday. My last day of work was Wednesday. I’m now a stay at home mom.

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From June 12th, “Hi there! Sophia had a good day. I put her to try to walk with the walker toy and she can walk slowly with it! She also sat in the bike and *name of boy* was pushing the bike with Sophia riding.”

(It’s not really a bike – it’s a push toy that’s barely shaped like a motorcycle, BARELY)

June 16th, “Hi there! Sophia had a very good day! She is very comfortable and she loves to play with *name of boy*! Today they were having fun with musical instruments.”

She came home with the art project they did last week.
Father's day hand printHappy Father's Day Kurtie

June 17th, “Hi there! Sophia had a good day! She is eating better and when she wants me to hold her she put her arms wide open and shake them looking at me! She is so cute!”

She was finally her smiling and giggly self for the first time since Tuesday June 3rd. Two weeks to the day!

June 18th, “Hi there! Sophia had a great day. She loves to play with the chewing toys. I can see her second tooth cutting off already. A couple weeks ago I could only feel them. She can stay standing up by herself for a couple seconds!”

Actually being able to feel her teeth was three weeks ago, but who’s counting? :P And she’s been able to stand on her own for a while now.

June 19th, “Hi there! Sophia had an ok day. She loves to walk around the classroom with help. We read lots of books today and she smiled a lot to me when I was acting with the story.”

Sophia puked right before Kurt picked her up today. I didn’t think anything of it since he said is was due to her coughing, but I put her to bed at seven and she woke up drenched in her own vomit. I didn’t hear any coughing. I think she might be sick, AGAIN!

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“Hi there! It’s very good to see Sophia again. She had an okay day. She didn’t drink much of the bottle at 12:00. She made a beautiful art project for father’s day.”

It’s nice that she’s doing better and made it through daycare. Although they sent her home looing like Pebbles.
Pebbles Flintstone

I snapped a picture of her with me sneer too…that\'s my sneer baby
No, wait. It’s better than that. THIS is MY sneer…That\'s my sneer girl

She is almost over her cold. It just doesn’t sound like it. She has a terrible cough that keeps her up at night. Keeps me up too. :( I write this while wondering if there really are any benefits to milk baths. Yep, I got another one. My little faithful fountain blew again. She coughs so hard after eating sometimes that she erupts. She’s so miserable. I want my smiling, giggling little baby back.

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Daily Infant Report

The last Daily Infant Report was from the 28th of May when Sophia gave herself a fat lip when she flopped forward while sitting on the floor at daycare. I love getting these so much that I need to record them all in my blog, so here goes…

Thursday May 29th, “Hi there, Sophia had a great day. She really enjoyed playing with our musical interments. She played a lot with our puppet doll hair.” They had a bunch of musical tubes. Each made a different sound when hit against each other, great fun for any infant/toddler.

I have Fridays off, but I took Sophia to daycare on the 30th anyway. I was hoping to get somethings done around the house *ahem* anyway here’s the infant report from Friday, “Hi there! Sophia had a very good day. *Name of other care giver* put all the baby dolls around her and she just loved. She kept touching the doll’s eyes and mouth and laughing at them.” After I picked Sophia up from daycare we went to a friend’s house and stayed WAY past Sophia’s bedtime. She did awesome though and we slept in on Saturday. Sunday was gooduntil bedtime.

Monday June 2nd, “Hi there, Sophia had a great day! I could tell she was tired but she was in a good mood for most of the time. She painted with paint brush today.” She told me that Sophia didn’t want to get her hands dirty by finger painting. She kept looking at the icky paint on her hands with a sneer, so they tried giving her a paint brush. She just dabbed the paper with it.
Sophia\'s second masterpiece

Tuesday I didn’t take Sophia in. That’s the morning she woke up with her eyes glued shut with snot. Wednesday she looked fine in the morning. She was still sick but wasn’t acting lethargic and didn’t have a fever. At one in the afternoon I got a call from daycare. She had a fever of 102.8 and she had woke up from a nap with her eyes crusted over again. “Hi there Sophia wasn’t feeling so well. We hope she feels better.” I took her to the doctor and she now has drops for pink eye.

I still think the discharge is just he sinuses being overly backed up, but I’m giving her the drops anyway. Sophia’s regular doctor was out and the doctor that saw us didn’t even look at Sophia’s face before telling me that it was in fact pink eye. One of Sophia’s eye lids was puffy and it was red in the corner where the green snot was coming out, but that was it. Every child I’ve ever seen with pink eye had pink skin around the whole eye and it was oozing white puss, not green snot. So my highly contagious child couldn’t go to daycare. On the upside, while the doctor examined Sophia’s ears it upset her so much she screamed and protested with her mouth open so that I could see the little tooth on the bottom that finally broke through the gums.

Today she was ok for most of the day, but when daddy got home from his nine day motorcycle trip Sophia threw up on him. Serves him right for not being here for the five hour Sunday night crying session. I should have got that on video for him. Make him listen to it on headphones – turned way up…for the whole five hours. I’m not bitter. No I’m not. Shut up.

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Snot Face

Sunday night was hell as you can see by my teething post, although it didn’t start that way. After eating some lunch, she played with her toys. I didn’t get all of her lunch off her face. Damnit. Then she stood around for a bit. She did a few push-ups (not really). When dinnertime came around, I let her have her own spoon which she promptly used to gag herself. I attempted to feed her sweet potatoes and rice cereal, but it looks as if I actually painted the baby with them. I think she would have received more nutritionally if I had just skipped her mouth and fed her ears. Afterwards she needed a bath.

Playing with toysStanding aroundDoing some girly push-upsDoing more girly push-upsLike totally gagging herself with a spoonSweet potato and rice fashion statement Wearing her dinner like no one else canNeeded a bath after dinner!

At six thirty, I sent the darling to bed. I thought she went to sleep. At seven, it sounded like she was stirring. By seven fifteen, it was hard to ignore the “stirring”. I lost count of how many times I picked her up and rocked her to sleep, just to have her wake up again when I lay her in the crib. I even tried to put her in her swing because I learned in one of the many mom class things that I went to, that when it is teething time, laying her on her back can cause more pressure in the ears. That was a no-go! I’m sure it wasn’t a bellyache because I didn’t hear any tummy rumblings. When it was finally over there was no belching or fart before or after the calm. She merely screamed and cried for FIVE HOURS! I tried Baby Orajel, which I had praised in the past, but that did NOTHING. Tylenol didn’t do anything either. Both of those companies can KISS MY ASS!! *Except when I may need to administer Tylenol to reduce a fever, other than that, fucking useless! Here is what she looked like three hours into the crying serenade with two hours to go…
Teething

She did fine at daycare on Monday, though she took three long naps instead of two. I arrived there to pick her up just after her third nap. They were about to call me because she woke up with snot in one eye and they thought it might be pink eye. This morning she looked like this…
Snot face extraordinaire

See that stuff in her eyes?…it’s snot. Not snot rubbed into the eyes, but sinuses so backed up snot is coming out the eyes! Kurt has been calling her the human petree dish. I call her Snot Face.

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Fat lip baby

This is another post should have a picture attached. Of course, it probably wasn’t bad enough that anyone else would be able to see it, but Sophia came home from daycare with a fat lip yesterday. I stayed at work an extra ten minutes chatting with a coworker and arrived at the daycare ten minutes after Sophia’s fat lip incident. *sigh*

They all looked worried when they saw me arrive to pick up Sophia instead of Kurt. I think they were expecting a much more emotional momma bear. She looked fine and every kid gets them, so no big deal. Apparently, Sophia was sitting on the floor with a boppy pillow behind her, since she has a tendency to fling herself backwards. She was reaching for a toy in front of her, flopped forward and hit her mouth on the floor. This incident has caused us to find that her two bottom teeth are coming in. I still can’t see them. You would think that I would be the first to know, but I haven’t felt them either. We know because the skin inside of Sophia’s top lip was scratched in two places all the way up. They gave her an icepack and me an “occurrence report” to sign.

Yesterday’s Daily Infant Report read, “Hi there! Sophia had a great day! Even without her ‘friend‘ she did pretty good. Today I saw she sitting up all by herself! She is strong”

You’ll have to forgive the grammar. English isn’t her first language. The part about her sitting up meant that she saw Sophia waking up from a nap and the next thing she new Sophia sat up without using the bars on the crib. She’s only an infant but she sat straight up! Actually, she cheats a bit by using her elbows to push herself up, but still! I know this because I’ve watched her do it several times.

I can’t believe I forgot to bring ‘friend’ with me yesterday! Today as I dropped her off, they made sure I had ‘friend’ with me. Today’s Daily Infant Report read, “Hi there! Sophia is doing better and better each day! Today she was giggling and smiling a lot when *name of other caregiver* was playing peek-a-boo with her. We took pictures of it!”

I can’t wait to see those pictures. :) Oh and she had a two hour nap on her stomach! (They of course place her on her back to sleep.)

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I didn’t post a picture of yesterday’s masterpiece, Ode to Blue by Sophia. Her first of many.
Sophia\'s first work of art - Ode to Blue

I can’t believe I didn’t post it. Dang, I suck at this. :P

Today’s infant report, “Hi there! Sophia had a great day! She did good with cereal today, she ate the whole bowl. Sophia was playing a lot with *name of boy baby* they were sharing a purple ball and smile to each other.”

Uh-oh I better hide this one from Kurtie :P

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Each day Sophia comes home with a report of how her day went. The daycare lists how many wet diapers and bowl movements and what time(s) she was changed. They list what she ate, how much and what time she ate it. She actually ate a whole jar of peas today! They also write the times her naps start and stop along with a general paragraph of what went on that day. Today’s report is as follows, “Hi there! Sophia had a good day! She painted to mom today. She liked to paint but didn’t like sitting on the high chair alone so I held her while painting.” Sophia brought her masterpiece home and daddy has hung it on the fridge. It’s all blue, Sophia’s favorite color.

Sophia came home with a print out of the pictures taken at daycare from her first and second day. In one she’s looking up at the camera with very puffy eyes :( That was a shot from the first day. The other three pictures were smiley ones. Today she also came home with a fever of 101.6. They were about to call us to come and pick her up when Kurt showed up. We took her temperature at home and it was already down to 99 and an hour later 98.

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Toys R Us does refund for BPA bottles

I just returned my AVENT bottles and bottle warmer which included an AVENT bottle to Toys R Us (which is the same company I bought them from, just not the same store). I received a full refund without a receipt in the form of store credit. At first they were reluctant to take them but if you arm yourself with patience and information they will likely take all BPA items back despite there not being an official recall in the US.

I’m really happy about this because I needed to buy more bottles for Sophia since she isn’t taking a sippy cup at daycare. I guess today they tried a bunch of different bottles with her. In their note they sent home with Kurt it said, “Sophia seems to like the older Gerber nipple with three holes in the top of it. She’s so specific. :) ” I think that’s their way of saying, “She’s a fussy little shit and that’s the only one that would plug her hole!” I couldn’t find what they specified because it’s older. The closest I came was a tan classic Evenflo stage three nipple. I hope it’s close enough.

Actually I’ve been told she did really well for her second day. She did look a lot better than yesterday when she came home. In their notes to us they wrote, “Sophia did really well! She liked it when I blew the bubbles :) The bumpy ball she found interesting. She did really good! She loves her blanket and we keep it with her everywhere!”

** Update 4 June 2008 **
One of the links that have brought people to this post stats that their Babies R Us store insisted their bottles be complete including nipple. My local store accepted them incomplete. I did however place disks in them to make them look complete. I had already tossed all the nipples I bought because I was using the AVENT sippy cup tops. By the way AVENT sippy cups don’t have BPA, so I still use those.

** Update 20 June 2008 **
I guess Babies R Us isn’t doing store credit refunds anymore. They’re only doing bpa bottle for non-bpa bottle exchanges.

** Update 23 June 2008 **
There are a bunch of different message boards linking to this post and each one of them has someone saying to make sure to call your local store before going because not all stores are doing returns. I’d like to mention that it’s a lot easier for the stores to say no when you’re not standing in front of them and other potential customers. It’s better for PR to do some sort of exchange if a customer standing in front of them is concerned about chemicals in their babies bottles. With that in mind, if you live close enough and have some time – JUST GO TO THE STORE WITH YOUR BOTTLES. It might be a long wait while they hem and haw about it, and they may in fact say no, but I bet you’ll get better results if you JUST GO IN PERSON.

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